Saturday, September 28, 2013

Family Visits

Even with the chaos of receiving household goods and unpacking, we managed a quick Arkansas/Oklahoma trip while R was here.

First we went to Arkansas for a very quick visit to see my Grandma.  She is almost 90 years old, and my last living grandparent.  R definitely wanted to see her before he headed back...

Grandma White.  So glad that my kids have had her in their lives this long.
Then a short visit at MiMi & PaPa's house, and some surprise visitors!
These two little ladies were A's very best friends from the year we lived in Arkansas.  It was so great for them to be together again!!
Then we were off to the hotel for some swimming fun, before we headed back to Oklahoma the next morning!
Ready to swim!  Doesn't he look a bit like Steve Urkel in this pic?

The goggles might have been a bit tight on his forehead, you think?

Hot tubbin' with Daddy
The next morning we were off to Oklahoma to visit with some of R's family.
Swimmin' at Grandma & Grandpa Willis's house, with cousins, aunts and uncles!
It was a super fast trip, but it gave R a chance to reconnect with family we hadn't seen in 2 years.  Then we were back to Edmond to get back to work settling in.

A final thought:  R & I consider Arkansas "home".  When we say we are going "home", it usually means Arkansas.  We met there, we were married there, our girls were born there....it's home.  We left Arkansas shortly after we were married and T was born...the Army sent us to OK.  Then a few years later we left the Army and returned to Arkansas so R could get his commission through ROTC and return to the Army as an officer.  We thought it would provide a better career for R, and a better life for our family.  This is the house we moved into when we moved back to Arkansas...
We like to drive by it sometimes when we go to Arkansas for a visit.  It helps us to be grateful for where we are today, and remind us how many blessings we have received along the way.  T was 3 years old when we moved into this house...and we were happy to have it.  We've come a LONG way in those 12 years...and what a 12 year journey it has been!!

Sunday, September 22, 2013

4th of July

The 4th of July is one of my favorite holidays!  And being back in the States for this one made it even more special!

We started the day with the parade in downtown Edmond.

Sittin' right up in the action!

But the clowns were coming...so Little R decided to move back to safer distance with T.

R had just as much fun as the kids!
After the parade it was on to a friend's house for lunch!
And an arm-wrestling match!  With the Arm-Wrestling-Champion-of-the-World!!  : )  R lost...we kinda all knew he would! : )
After lunch and some fun times visiting with two sweet families...and R recovering from his crushing defeat...we decided Braum's was in order.  This is another place that we sorely missed while in Germany.  When we lived here before, we visited Braum's frequently...entirely too frequently.  Like, so often they probably noticed the decrease in sales when we moved...
Two thumbs up...best chocolate milkshake in town!

T is happy!
After ice cream, it was time to go home and rest up for fireworks later that evening. 
Having fun before fireworks

R & Little R giving disc golf a try...

Waiting for the fireworks....almost dark!
GREAT day!!  It was so wonderful to celebrate the 4th in the States.  And Little R even made it through about half the fireworks before he fell asleep!  He tried so hard to hang on, but he just couldn't!!  We are thinking maybe by the time he is 10, he'll actually see a full fireworks show! : )

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Little R + Playmobil

This is just too cute not to post!  Little R is always setting up his Playmobil or Lego sets, and then calling me in to see his creation.  I'm usually pretty amazed by his elaborate set up...he has quite the imagination, and puts each thing in just the right spot.

This day he called me in, and this is what I found:

In the pile of rubble off to the right, there is a man.  Little R explained that "the man was killed, and all of the other men are praying for him."

How sweet is that??

They are knights & pirates, but when a man goes down, they stop and pray together....

Reconnecting...

Next on our agenda was meeting up with one of our favorite families in Edmond.  The Parkers are a sweet family with 6 girls!  They have a matching-aged child for each of our kiddoes...and a few in between.  We love, love, love this family...they are some of our very best friends!

We wanted to surprise the girls, so we didn't tell anyone exactly when we were coming back.  On this day, R gave Scott a call at work, said we were headed to their house to see everyone!  Scott rushed home from work and they gave the girls some sort of story for why we he was home.

We pulled up in the driveway and....

It was a wonderful reunion!!  And we are looking forward to never having to leave these sweet friends again!!  I'm loving the thought of our little ones growing up together!!

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Our First Day HOME!!

The first thing on our agenda the morning after our arrival was to go and see our new home!  My parents made several trips to OK looking at houses for us...without them we never could have secured a house from Germany!  But we had only seen a couple of dark, blurry pictures of the house...so we were going solely on my parents' opinion of the house...and because our goal is security for our kids...we signed a 3-yr lease on a house we had never seen!!  So we were just a little anxious to get over and see it!

Driving into Edmond for the first time...

Our street...

Our new home...

Checking things out...

This is the result of 40 hours of travel...and a 7 hour time difference...and jet lag.  She slept on the hardwood floor for about 30 minutes!!

After having NO closets for the last 2 years, this is one of my favorite features of our new home...and I don't even have to share it with anyone right now!

And another favorite feature...my new XL washer & dryer!  The German washer & dryer I had was TINY, and they take forever to finish a load.  So I would do several loads of laundry every.single.day.  But not here!!  I am able to do laundry ONCE A WEEK, and get it finished in less than a day!!  It's absolutely amazing!!  I LOVE IT!!

Another favorite feature...our patio!  I spend lots of time out here now that we have the puppy.  But I can't wait to have friends over and cook out, and watch the kids play in the backyard! 
After looking over the house, it was time for lunch!  And where did we want to eat our first lunch in Edmond???  Why, Chick Fil A, of course!!
I had been looking forward to this day for SO long!!  And it was wonderful!  And I won't admit how many times we have been back to Chick Fil A in the 2 1/2 months we've been here...
A wonderful first day back in Edmond!!  We are so excited to be back!  And I am so excited about all the memories we are going to make...in our new (and hopefully last) hometown!!

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Leaving Germany...Returning Home!

This is our family.  June 24, 2013.  Excited to say goodbye to Germany and head home to the United States.  We hadn't seen the States in almost 2 years...and we were ready!  This is about 7:00 am Germany time (12 midnight Oklahoma time).  What you don't see are around 6 VERY large suitcases, a couple of smaller suitcases, and 5 carry on bags.  Oh, and Anji (our cat) in a small carrier!  She would be travelling in the cabin with us on our flights to the States.  We were up early, excited and prepared for a long day of travel ahead of us.  But we knew (or at least we thought we knew) that we would be in OKC in approximately 15 hours!!

We arrived at the airport in Stuttgart, and made it through security with no problems!  Even taking Anji out of the crate to walk through security wasn't the ordeal we thought it would be!  Our flight was on time, and it was a smooth 9 hours.  Little R was a champ!  He watched movies for 9 hours straight...except for some pretty frequent bathroom breaks...because the nice ladies kept bringing him Sprite! : )

We arrived in Newark, NJ on time and settled in for a long layover.

Anji had been in her small carrier for approximately 12 hours at this point, and we were able to check her in to the kennel at the airport to give her room to stretch out and use the litterbox during the layover.  This was a blessing!

We found a Dunkin Donuts with free Wi-Fi...another blessing!  After a couple of hours of surfing the net, and having some food, we decided to check on our flight.

At this point, we are TIRED, very TIRED!  It is approximately 11:00 pm Germany time, and we have been up since 5:30 a.m.

We check the screens for our flight...it's not listed yet...so I check online, and it shows our flight status as cancelled!!  We panic a bit, and R leaves us at Dunkin Donuts to go and check things out.  After being gone close to an hour, he returns.  Yes, our flight is cancelled.  No, there are no more flights leaving NJ to OKC that evening.  But my darling husband has kindly booked us on a flight leaving at 6:00 am the following morning!!  After a minor meltdown (or major hissy fit) on my part, I convinced R that there was NO way we were going to be able to come back to the airport by 4:00 am the next morning!!  Remember, we are dealing with a 7 hour time difference, jet lag, and now we have been awake for over 18 hours!!  So...he heads back to the ticket counter to see if he can find a flight leaving the next day, but late enough that we might actually be able to get some sleep!

Fast forward almost another hour later...and R returns.  We are in luck!  He has booked us on a flight for the next day, leaving at 2:00 pm!!  The airline will pay for a hotel room for the night, so no problem, right?  Oh, and one little glitch...the flight leaves from La Guardia, not Newark.  No big deal...the airline will pay for a cab from Newark to La Guardia, then at La Guardia they will book us a room and we will be on our way!  Simple, right???

Hmmm...we just realized we are going to spend a night in a hotel...and we don't have our luggage...so we have NOTHING!!

By this time we are late to pick up Anji from the kennel.  So, we head down to the kennel where we dropped her off, and they are closed!!  Luckily we were able to go to another counter, and after a bit of a wait, we were able to pick her up.  So far, so good!

Now...off to get a cab and head to La Guardia...which is in New York City, in case you didn't know!  We were told it would be about a 45-minute cab ride.  None of the cabs are big enough for all of us, so Little R is going to have to sit on a lap.  I am a car-seat stickler...but I am so tired at this point that I say okay.  They assure us we don't go THROUGH the city...we go around it...no major traffic or anything.  So, we load up in the cab, and we are off!  And guess what???  Traffic, fast driving, THROUGH the city...and tunnels!!  I'm a nervous wreck because my little guy is sitting IN.MY.LAP through New York City!!!  But we make it to La Guardia...finally.

Now, it's just a quick trip inside, they will book us a hotel room, and pay for a cab to get us there.  Simple, right????

By this time it is about 9:30 p.m. New York time....which equates to 3:30 am the next day Germany time.  We have now been awake for 22 hours!!!!  Little R fell asleep on the ride to La Guardia, so that is a blessing (or so we thought at the time).  I put him in the stroller, and we are off to the counter to get our hotel room booked.  A is laying in the floor, using her backpack as a pillow, Little R is in the stroller asleep, T is carrying Anji around in the carrier, and I am sitting on the floor, exhausted...while R goes to the counter to handle the hotel room....and we wait.  And we wait.  After about 30 minutes, they tell us they are having trouble finding a hotel room.  Everything is booked by all the other people who were on the cancelled flights.  And we have a cat....and no available rooms that will take a cat!! 

And I am freaking out just a bit!  And then....Little R (still sleeping) pees his pants...which of course wakes him up...crying!!  We have no extra clothes...all the shops in the airport are closed...and Little R is soaking wet...and CRYING!!!  And we still can't find a hotel room!!!!

I take Little R to the bathroom and try to dry his clothes with the hand dryer...but it's one of those that doesn't even get warm...so it doesn't really work.  Oh, and he's still CRYING!!

We go back to the counter where R is still trying to get us a room...but no luck!  I got out the Ipad, signed up for 10 free minutes of Wi-Fi and started searching frantically for a hotel room that will take pets and has rooms available.  ONE option pops up...2 rooms will cost us $500 for the night.  Doesn't matter...I book it!  It's totally worth $500 to get my little family to a hotel room!  We tell the people we found our own hotel room, and we just need a cab to get there.  They say to give them a few minutes and they will try to get it paid for by the airline.  After another 15-20 minutes, they agree to pay for it, we head out to the cab, and we are on our way!!

The cab driver is very friendly, but his English is not very good. R asks him if he could possibly stop somewhere to see if we could find dry underwear for Little R.  Oh, and in case you are wondering...Super Wal-Marts don't seem to exist in NYC!!  Even though the cab driver is being paid a set fee for the trip by the airline, he agrees to stop at a Rite Aid that is still open....R runs in...no little boys' underwear.  Cab driver goes to another Rite Aid in another area...R runs in...no little boys' underwear.  Finally, we just agree to go on to the hotel.

We check in to the wonderfully nice hotel, and head up to our rooms.  They are wonderful!!  By this time it is after midnight, New York time....so it is after 6:00 a.m Germany time.  We have now been awake for over 24 hours!! OUCH!!  I use the hairdryer to dry Little R's clothes, put them back on him, and we all head to bed, for some much needed sleep.

The hotel had a restaurant on the rooftop where they served breakfast.  R took A and Little R up there when they woke up, and this is the view they saw!




After a good (although short) night's sleep, a warm shower, and a good breakfast...it was awesome to see this view of NYC!  And although we would rather have been in OKC on this morning, this was a neat surprise!

And while I was getting showered, R decided to call some dear friends who live in New York now.  We met this sweet couple when we were stationed at Ft. Hood MANY years ago, when they had no kids, and we only had two.  We have seen them only a couple of times since then, when we visited them in Florida.  Now they are in New York, and they rearranged their plans for the day, and agreed to meet us at the airport for lunch!  They even brought Little R a new outfit to change into, so he didn't have to spend another day in his pee-soaked clothes!! 

What a blessing it was to see them again!!  Their son Caleb and Little R became fast friends!!  And we got to meet their newest addition for the first time!  It was an extremely bright spot in a very awful trip for us!!
Lunch together!  Little R was a very happy boy!  We hadn't seen Caleb since he was 2...so this was a real treat for all of us!

Great lunch, great friends!!

Picking out ice cream together...so cute!

Ethan sampled some ice cream, too!

Silly, happy boys!!
After our lunch & quick visit, we said goodbye to Dave & Becky and the boys, and headed to our next flight...to Denver.  We were trying to get to OKC, and the only way to get there was via Colorado???  Oh well, whatever it takes!!  We had a smooth flight to Denver, then a short layover and we were on our way to OKC!!  We landed sometime around 10:30 pm OK time, and got to bed around 1:00 am.  So...after about 48 hours of travel...we made it!!

I can't even begin to explain how great it felt when we landed in OKC!!  We were thrilled to be back in the States after almost 2 years away!!  And it felt even better to wake up the next morning, take a shower, put on clean clothes and makeup, and start our new normal, back in the States!!